How to get your ex back ?

Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years now. We had fights every now and then but it usually went away. 4 weeks ago, I caught him flirting with my best friends and we had a big fight and broke up after that. Now I really miss him. Can someone tell me how to get my ex back? I called him and he wouldn't even answer. Everything goes into voicemail. When I bumped into him, he treats me like a friend. Please help me. I've been sleeping 1 hour every night. Every time I close my eye, I see my boyfriend. Please, can someone tell me if you had ran into similar situation. Please tell me how to get your boyfriend back fast?


A: I'm sorry to hear what what happened to you. I've been through many relationships in the course of my lifetime and I know how tough it is. There are many ways on how to get your ex back fast? 
Speed is the key here usually. You want to tap his/her emotion before they are moving onto someone else and found their new love. Also, your first words to them is important. It is your only chance. Do not beg or cry because study shows that it will not work. Instead, use the past to your advantage to trigger his memory. For instance, you can wear the shirt they gave you or put on something that triggers the happy memory you both have in the past. Most importantly, stay strong. I can go on and on all day and I still can't list you all the techniques. I recommend picking up a book. Get one in store or online and start digging immediately. There are so many valuable books online. In worst case if you can't win them back, you know you have at least given your best and you would be much more experienced in your next relationship. Reading takes your mind off many things too.